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How to Make More Money in your Job

Ali Abdaal·
6 min read

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TL;DR

Treat manager perception as a primary driver of raises and promotions, not just personal effort.

Briefing

Making more money in a job doesn’t require quitting for entrepreneurship; it usually comes from becoming the kind of employee who gets visibility, strong manager support, and repeat opportunities for promotion and raises. The core claim is blunt: in most organizations, your manager’s perception of your work—more than the work itself—drives outcomes like raises, promotions, and long-term financial security.

The advice starts with a mindset shift that can feel uncomfortable: aim to become your boss’s favorite employee. That doesn’t mean blind flattery; it’s about recognizing that managers control key career levers such as project assignments, recommendations, and raise approvals. The relationship also affects day-to-day well-being—when a manager seems to dislike you, stress and anxiety spike, which can damage performance and health. When a manager values you, confidence rises, communication improves, and growth becomes more likely.

From there, the strategies get practical. Preparation for one-on-ones is treated as a career tool, not an administrative chore. Instead of an empty document or vague notes, the approach is to maintain a structured one-on-one tracker with categories like business, operations, and people, then add a career section every four to six weeks. The emphasis is on what the manager thinks you’re doing, so the documentation should include specific bullets, numbers, and links.

Visibility is the next lever. The “shameless Monday morning email” challenges the common belief that good work will speak for itself. Managers can’t read minds and often juggle too many direct reports to notice everything. A short weekly update—about last week’s accomplishments and next week’s priorities—creates a steady stream of context. The guidance is to keep it tight (around 15 minutes) and send it via email or chat tools like Slack.

Communication tactics then reinforce the same theme: make it easy for others to support you. One method is shifting language from “I” to “you,” focusing on the recipient’s goals and impact rather than personal intentions. Another is “taming the octopus,” a way to stop rambling by pausing, selecting the most relevant points, and leading with a concise set of three themes. The transcript uses a roleplay where a messy “words salad” answer becomes a clear list of three challenges—priorities, tools, and global alignment—followed by brief justification.

Executives and managers also need clarity fast, so slide decks should use a “grab” first-slide approach: put the purpose and key request up front rather than burying it under dense data. Beyond communication, the social side matters too. Being a “net positive energy contributor” (an energizer) is framed as a measurable advantage, linked to better evaluations, promotions, and pay in research cited from Feelgood Productivity.

Finally, career growth is treated as a partnership process. Schedule a dedicated career development conversation (30–45 minutes) and even consider reaching out to your manager’s manager to build broader support, since promotion decisions often involve multiple stakeholders. When discussing raises, lead with “what/how” questions that invite collaboration—how to partner on a promotion, what a raise plan could look like in six months—rather than yes/no demands. The overall message: financial progress inside a job is engineered through relationships, visibility, and structured communication, not just hard work or side hustles.

Cornell Notes

The transcript argues that higher pay in a traditional job comes less from “working harder” and more from shaping your manager’s perception and support. Becoming your boss’s favorite employee, preparing for one-on-ones with structured, specific updates, and increasing visibility through a short Monday email are presented as high-leverage moves. Communication guidance—using “you” language, “taming the octopus” to avoid rambling, and using a “grab” first slide—aims to make it easy for leaders to advocate for you. The approach also emphasizes proactive career conversations, including with your manager’s manager, and collaborative raise discussions using open-ended “what/how” questions. The practical takeaway: engineer promotion readiness through relationships and clarity, not just effort.

Why does the transcript treat the manager relationship as a career multiplier rather than a background factor?

It frames managers as the gatekeepers of raises, promotions, and valuable assignments. When a manager values and likes an employee, confidence rises and communication improves, which supports growth. When a manager seems to dislike someone, uncertainty and stress can become chronic—leading to anxiety, sleep deprivation, and a narrowed focus on perceived weaknesses—ultimately harming performance and well-being. The key point is that career outcomes track closely with how the manager feels and what the manager believes the employee is doing.

What should go into a one-on-one preparation document, and how often should career notes be updated?

Instead of leaving an empty doc or vague bullets, the guidance is to use three-plus-one categories: business, operations, and people, then add a career section every four to six weeks. Each week should include bullets with numbers and links. The goal is to give the manager a clear, evidence-based picture of progress and priorities so the manager’s perception aligns with the employee’s actual impact.

What is the “shameless Monday morning email,” and why does it work?

It’s a short weekly update (about 15 minutes to write) sent to a manager every Monday. It summarizes last week’s accomplishments and highlights what’s on deck next week, including what the employee is proud of and the priorities that move the business forward. The rationale is visibility: managers often can’t notice everything across multiple direct reports, and they aren’t mind readers. Regular updates reduce the chance that good work goes unseen.

How does “woo with you” change the way employees should write or speak to leaders?

It recommends using “you” instead of “I” in as many sentences as possible when communicating with a boss. The transcript contrasts an “I”-heavy email praising personal feelings and intentions with a rewritten version that thanks the recipient, acknowledges their team’s seamless collaboration, and ties the contribution to the recipient’s goals. The underlying logic is that most people anchor on “what’s in it for me,” but employees should anchor on what matters to the company and the leader—showing value and impact first.

What does “tame the octopus” mean in practice during meetings?

It’s a method for communicating with conviction by stopping rambling. The example roleplay shows a poor answer that lists many scattered issues (“words salad”) versus a stronger answer that pauses, selects three key themes, and leads with them: priorities, tools, and global alignment. After naming the three points, the speaker briefly explains each and then repeats the three themes to “button it up.” The transcript also adds that pausing can make someone sound more prepared rather than less.

Why are career development conversations and “what/how” raise questions emphasized?

The transcript says employees should schedule a dedicated 30–45 minute career development conversation titled explicitly as such, signaling that it’s about growth and compensation. It also encourages building relationships beyond the direct manager by reaching out to the manager’s manager, since promotion decisions often involve multiple stakeholders. For raises, it advises leading with partnership-oriented “what” and “how” questions (e.g., how to partner on a promotion, what a raise plan could look like in six months) so the manager can weigh in and buy into the plan rather than responding to a yes/no demand.

Review Questions

  1. Which three strategies in the transcript most directly influence what a manager believes you’re doing, and why?
  2. How would you rewrite a meeting answer using “tame the octopus” (three points + brief justification + repetition)?
  3. What changes would you make to your next one-on-one document to align with the business/operations/people/career structure?

Key Points

  1. 1

    Treat manager perception as a primary driver of raises and promotions, not just personal effort.

  2. 2

    Aim to become your boss’s favorite employee by aligning with what managers control: projects, recommendations, and raise decisions.

  3. 3

    Prepare for one-on-ones with a structured document (business, operations, people) and update career notes every four to six weeks using specific bullets, numbers, and links.

  4. 4

    Increase visibility with a short weekly Monday update summarizing last week’s wins and next week’s priorities in about 15 minutes.

  5. 5

    Communicate with clarity by using “you” language, avoiding rambling through “tame the octopus,” and grabbing attention with a purpose-first first slide.

  6. 6

    Schedule explicit career development conversations (30–45 minutes) and consider building relationships with your manager’s manager.

  7. 7

    When discussing raises, use collaborative “what/how” questions to invite the manager’s input and shared ownership of the plan.

Highlights

The transcript’s central lever is not entrepreneurship—it’s engineering your manager’s support through visibility and structured communication.
A weekly 15-minute Monday email is framed as a practical antidote to the belief that “work will speak for itself.”
“Tame the octopus” turns scattered updates into a concise three-part message that sounds more prepared and easier to advocate for.
Promotion and raise decisions are treated as social and stakeholder-based, so career conversations should extend beyond the direct manager.

Topics

  • Career Advancement
  • Manager Relationships
  • One-on-Ones
  • Visibility
  • Raise Negotiation

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