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Recent Reads #39 | A book I love and a book I hate

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TL;DR

“Cold Enough for Snow” earns praise for delicate, low-stakes intimacy, but repeated backstory dips are said to weaken present-day relationship development.

Briefing

A quietly devastating mother–daughter travel story and a fiercely polarizing horror classic bookend a reading streak that swings from lyrical wonder to outright disgust. In “Cold Enough for Snow,” Jessica Au’s novel lingers over a few days in Tokyo as a mother and daughter travel together, building its impact through fragility, low stakes, and a narrative that feels almost whispered. The relationship is the emotional core, but frequent backstory dips blunt the present-tense intimacy the premise promises—leaving the bond with less depth than it could have had, even as the prose remains delicate and thought-dense.

The most talked-about “love” lands in “When I’m Gone Look for Me in the East” by Qwan Berry, a Mongolian road narrative driven by reincarnation lore and the bond between twin brothers. Chulan, still a monk, and his brother Mun—once identified as the reincarnation of a significant llama—set out across Mongolia to find another child who might carry the same spiritual return. The plot is simple: meet children, test claims, travel onward. What makes it unforgettable is the voice and the way the story turns that journey into layered reflection—rich, wise, vibrant, and poetic—so that even a straightforward quest feels expansive.

For craft-minded reasons, the reading list also includes “Jane a Murder” by Maggie Nelson, a true-crime memoir built from shifting vignette forms, found footage, and journal fragments arranged into poetry. Nelson’s approach avoids sensationalism, treating the aunt’s death as a wound that must be understood rather than a spectacle to consume. Yet the book’s verse-and-fragment structure starts to feel repetitive as it progresses, with the form sometimes used less as a scene-specific tool and more as a consistent template.

The sharpest backlash targets “Ring” by Koji Suzuki, translated by Robert B. Ramer and Glenn W. Waly. The cursed-tape premise remains gripping and the lore delivers real mystery and some strong early reveals. But the later conclusions feel like unearned leaps, and the characters—especially Ryuji and Asakawa—are described as flat and morally repellent. The critique becomes especially intense around how sexual assault is depicted: scenes are framed from the perpetrator’s perspective, treated with “quirk”-like casualness, and reinforced with misogyny and victim-blaming. Transphobia is also called out. The verdict is blunt: the movie adaptation is praised for removing the worst elements and making Asakawa a woman, while the book is recommended only for die-hard “Ring” franchise fans who want the origin material.

Other titles land in the middle. “Vagabonds” by El Ghosa Sunday offers a fragmented, surreal Lagos portrait that excites at the language-and-form level but struggles with forward momentum, almost like a string of beginnings rather than a sustained narrative. “The Empress of Salt and Fortune” by Nghi Vo earns praise for its short, mythic, lyrical world-building—though the reviewer wants deeper characterization and more event depth. “13 Shells” by Nadia Bozak disappoints for lack of character evolution and weak standalone story impact. Poetry is mixed: “Time Is a Mother” by Ocean Vuong starts underwhelmingly but improves, while “Self-Help” by Laurie Moore is celebrated as a near-masterclass in second-person short fiction. “Portrait of an Unknown Lady” by María Gainza, translated by Thomas Bunsted, is praised for elegant prose and a Buenos Aires art-forgery premise, but the second half is said to lose momentum by shifting focus away from the protagonist’s perspective toward procedural investigation.

Cornell Notes

The reading list pairs delicate, relationship-driven fiction with craft-driven experiments and a highly controversial horror classic. “Cold Enough for Snow” is praised for its gentle, fragile tone but criticized for relying too heavily on backstory dips that weaken the present-day mother–daughter bond. “When I’m Gone Look for Me in the East” is the standout favorite: a simple reincarnation quest across Mongolia becomes expansive through Chulan’s distinctive voice and the brothers’ relationship. “Jane a Murder” earns credit for humanizing a real death through poetic, non-sensational form shifts, though the structure can feel repetitive. “Ring” is described as compulsively readable for its lore and early reveals, but rejected for flat, despicable characters and problematic depictions of sexual violence and other prejudices.

What makes “Cold Enough for Snow” feel distinctive even though it has little plot?

Jessica Au’s novel is built on subtlety: a mother and daughter travel together in Tokyo over a few days, with “fragility” and low stakes driving the emotional atmosphere. The narrative is described as whisper-like and delicate, with sparse description and a dense style of thought despite minimal external conflict. The reviewer’s main reservation is structural: frequent backstory intrusions reduce the development of the relationship in the present tense, even though the relationship is supposed to be the heart of the book.

Why does “When I’m Gone Look for Me in the East” land as a favorite despite a simple premise?

Qwan Berry’s story follows Chulan and his twin Mun across Mongolia to find a child who could be the reincarnation of a significant llama. The quest mechanics are straightforward—meet children, evaluate claims, keep traveling—but the reviewer credits the book’s distinctive voice and the brothers’ relationship as the real engine. The prose is repeatedly characterized as rich, layered, wise, vibrant, and poetic, making the journey feel reflective and expansive rather than plot-driven.

How does “Jane a Murder” handle true crime differently from typical true-crime storytelling?

Maggie Nelson’s approach is praised for avoiding sensationalism and intrigue in violence. The murder investigation is framed as deeply personal: Nelson connects the aunt’s death to a lasting wound in her family and uses the form to make sense of impact rather than to exploit it. The book’s structure—vignette shifts, found footage-like journal fragments, and poetry—creates a tangible portrait of Jane, though the reviewer notes that later the repeated forms can start to feel less scene-specific.

What are the main reasons “Ring” is both compelling and deeply disliked?

The cursed-tape setup produces a grippy mystery, with compelling lore and some strong early reveals. The reviewer still enjoyed reading it because the mystery kept pulling them forward. The rejection centers on execution: later reveals weaken, conclusions feel like character whims without plot justification, and the leading characters (Ryuji and Asakawa) are called flat and morally repellent. The most severe critique targets how sexual assault is portrayed—often from the male perpetrator’s perspective, treated with casual “oops” framing, and reinforced with misogyny and victim-blaming—along with added transphobia near the end.

Which books are praised for form and language even when momentum or character development falters?

“Vagabonds” by El Ghosa Sunday is praised for its surreal, fragmented depiction of Lagos and for exciting language/form experiments, but it’s criticized for a learning-curve feel and a lack of forward narrative momentum. “Portrait of an Unknown Lady” is praised for airy, crisp, elegant prose and a compelling Buenos Aires art-forgery premise, but the second half is said to lose momentum by shifting attention from the protagonist’s perspective to investigative and technical art details.

Review Questions

  1. Which structural choice in “Cold Enough for Snow” most undermines the relationship the reviewer expected to feel central?
  2. What specific combination of strengths and flaws makes “Ring” a “read it but don’t recommend it” case?
  3. How do the reviewer’s reactions to “Jane a Murder” and “Vagabonds” differ when form becomes repetitive or when narrative momentum stalls?

Key Points

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    “Cold Enough for Snow” earns praise for delicate, low-stakes intimacy, but repeated backstory dips are said to weaken present-day relationship development.

  2. 2

    “When I’m Gone Look for Me in the East” stands out because a simple reincarnation quest becomes emotionally expansive through Chulan’s distinctive voice and the brothers’ bond.

  3. 3

    “Jane a Murder” is credited with humanizing a real death through non-sensational true-crime memoir techniques, including poetry built from journal fragments.

  4. 4

    “Ring” is described as gripping for its lore and early mystery, yet rejected for flat, despicable characters and problematic depictions of sexual assault, misogyny, and transphobia.

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    “Vagabonds” is praised for language-and-form experimentation and a surreal Lagos lens, but criticized for fragmented beginnings and weak forward narrative momentum.

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    “The Empress of Salt and Fortune” is valued for short, mythic, lyrical world-building, while the reviewer wants deeper characterization and more event depth.

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    “Self-Help” by Laurie Moore is highlighted as a standout collection for punchy, clever second-person stories that balance heart, pain, comedy, and playfulness.

Highlights

“When I’m Gone Look for Me in the East” turns a straightforward reincarnation road quest into something “rich, layered, intricate, wise, vibrant and poetic,” with the brothers’ relationship doing the heavy lifting.
“Ring” remains a compelling mystery early on, but the reviewer’s strongest condemnation targets how sexual assault is written—often from the perpetrator’s perspective—and how misogyny and transphobia are reinforced.
“Jane a Murder” avoids sensational true-crime thrills by treating the aunt’s death as a lasting family wound, using poetry and journal fragments to build a human portrait of Jane.
“Vagabonds” is exciting at the level of form and language—especially its surreal reading of Lagos—but struggles to generate forward narrative momentum.
“Self-Help” is praised as a near-masterclass in second-person short fiction, with stories that are playful without losing emotional punch.

Topics

Mentioned

  • Jessica Au
  • Maggie Nelson
  • Qwan Berry
  • Koji Suzuki
  • Robert B. Ramer
  • Glenn Waly
  • El Ghosa Sunday
  • Nghi Vo
  • Nadia Bozak
  • Ocean Vuong
  • Laurie Moore
  • María Gainza
  • Thomas Bunsted
  • Hideo Nakata